How to Get a Woman's Attention Without Having to Say a Word

How to Get a Woman's Attention Without Having to Say a Word

You are shy around women, you don't need anyone to remind you of that, you know it all too well. You know that it gets in the way of being able to meet women. You know that having a shy side inhibits you from being one of those guys who drop pick up lines in bars or approaches women on the street. You know that when you are in a crowd with other men, you are not likely to be the one who stands out. What if you could and you didn't even have to say a single word to get attention from a woman?

Unbelievable?

I thought so too.

What I didn't realize and maybe you haven't realized it yet, is that verbal communication is only a small part of what actually attracts a woman's attention. Some say that it is as low as 7 percent. It's funny isn't it, that 7 percent, a tiny little number is what keeps you from being able to have the success with women that you deserve and yearn for.

It doesn't have to anymore.

I did a little test a few years back, just to see if it was really TRUE, that you could actually attract a woman's attention without having to say a single word. Much to my surprise - it worked the first time out! I was kind of shocked to say the least.

Standing in just the right spot in this trendy little bar, dating nigeria where lots of good looking and affluent men and women go on a Friday evening, I put it to the test. I made a pact with myself to stay silent, and to see if I could really attract a woman's attention. Just so you know, I'm rather picky when it comes to women.

Some call it superficial when you prefer really sexy, beautiful women. I prefer to call it being picky. Hope you don't mind.

I spotted her. She was gorgeous. Brunette, long hair, and those eyes. Beautiful blue eyes that I could see from about 30 feet away. Five foot six, maybe seven, couldn't have been more than 125 pounds... curvy where it counts.

I made eye contact and smiled, she did the same. I made sure that my body language was just right, and I briefly looked away, as if something caught my eye in the other direction.

When I looked back towards her, our eyes met again. Again, a little smile and this time - I made a slight adjustment to my body language and noticed, she kind of matched it. I rolled my eyes just a tad, to show a little playfulness.

Then I spotted a table that was free and sat down. A little exchange that seemed kind of fun, I didn't think anything more would come of it, so I gazed out the window for a moment, getting kind of lost in my thoughts.

That's when I heard it.

Her voice.

"Is it alright if I sit down with you?"

Yep. It worked. I didn't have to say a single syllable, she had come over and asked to join me.

Funny thing is, I've done the same thing over and over again since that night and most of the time, it works like a charm.

So, yeah, you CAN attract a woman's attention without having to say a single word.

That's good news if you are shy around women.

Here is a little recap of what I did and how you can attract a woman's attention without having to say a single word:

1. Playful and friendly eye contact.

2. Alpha male body language.

3. A simple shift in your body language that acts almost like a lure.

Pretty simple, right?

The beautiful thing of it is, you don't have to worry about having to "compete" with other men. You don't have to worry about having a killer pick up line. If you understand that most of the attraction happens on a non-verbal level, you are light years ahead of most men out there. And you WILL be able to attract attention from a woman, even if you are normally shy around them.